There’s a strange thing that happens when you’ve spent enough time working in hospitality. You stop being a normal guest. You walk into a bar, café, or restaurant and before you’ve even sat down, your brain is already at work. You notice the lighting. You hear the playlist. You clock the flow of the room, the staff movement, where the side station is, how the space feels. You are consciously not trying to judge. You are just wired this way now. And that is usually where the p

It's hard to ignore the rise of nonalcoholic drinks popping up at bars. But these days, the term 'nonalcoholic' is evolving, or diversifying, if you will. Gone are the days when 'nonalcoholic' at a bar simply meant just juices or soda or some mocktail. These days, you may hear terms N/A, or nonalc, or spirit-free, and here are other terms that are redefining this whole category of beverages. Alcohol-free: A product that contains no detectable alcohol, which means it's 0.0% AB

Being in the bar, you see, hear, and experience all kinds of things. It exposes you to countless moments, conversations, and experiences. Some moments are funny, while others may be uncomfortable. I found it beautiful because it is very unpredictable and not repeated every day. The following anecdotes are drawn from observation and being present, not just in the bar I work in, but across other bars I’ve been to. Before engaging in a conversation, I’ve learned to understand th